So I
did it! The unspeakable... I quit Facebook!
What started out as a “I am sick of
the privacy issues” idea turned out to be quite interesting. It turns out, yeah
I do like to post meaningful, educative, let’s-get-rid of-bigotry posts and my
friends appreciate it! But the fact is I do not care that you woke up and had a
cup of coffee. If you really were so miserable in the morning how did you
manage to write a status update?
Don’t
get me wrong, I am not (or actually did not start out) trying to make a
political statement. I just got tired of all the nonsense. Don’t get me wrong,
there are also great things about Facebook such as keeping in touch with people
I have not seen in years. But is it really keeping up? Or is it just stalking
to see what they post on Facebook? I don’t actually talk to all of these people
and much less send them a card on their birthday or the holidays. I figured if
I really want to stay in contact I and they will find a way. I am trying to
stay in contact more with people and so thus getting rid of Facebook seemed to
make sense.
On the plus side, I will be able to keep up with my blog instead of
just posting what others have to say.
But Facebook
is not all I am changing; I am changing the way I live. For those people who
know me, they know I try to live a conscious life. Equality and social justice for all people are huge priorities of mine. I can't help but live a life thinking how my actions affect those around me. Not just your typical "be nice to others
around you", but how does every one of your actions affect the world? This
includes your purchasing habits. How do your consumer urges and purchases impoverish
and make life unbearable for others? How do your actions affect the destruction
of the environment? Did you know that every single water bottle that you throw
away has enough plastic to contaminate every single ocean in the world?
So trying to stay true to myself I have decided I will not be a consumer as
much as possible. This includes not buying anything from a department store, such as clothes and the like. How will I survive you may ask? Pretty simple actually.
There are many second hand stores and thrift shops that have really cute trendy
and lightly worn stuff. I also trade my clothes all the time with frineds and sisters. And it may come as a surprise but I hate to go shopping! I would rather go in and get out! This may seem like something really hard for some
people, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized I have been doing this
pretty much my whole life. Growing up we did not have a lot. And very seldom
did we buy new clothes and the like. I spoke to my mom and my sister about what I am doing and they were like "oh ok." So all I am doing now is taking charge of
my consumer habits and trying to make this a better world. I have more that I
am doing, but that will wait for another post!
Very proud of you Conchita! You make me think out of the box! I think I'll follow your lead, and start a blog as well:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Ivan! You are pretty awesome yourself and are doing big things with your business. I would love to read your blog.
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DeleteAww thank you Conchita! We all have to do our part to show we are just as capable as anyone to be successful. I started my blog last night too, By the way. It's http://www.southernfusionmobile.com/blog.htm
DeletePlease stop by and help me get it going. I need visitors to ask me questions! I'd love to answer any, and all food related questions:)
Conchita, what you say makes sense. Thanks for sharing this. I resisted the temptation to share on Facebook. *smile* You are right. I've connected with people I haven't seen, but if I wanted to connect with people, really connect, why would I have waited for Facebook? Facebook says I have 286 friends. I can count the real friends I have on one hand. The word friends gets thrown around a lot these days, but true friends are rarer than diamonds, and far more precious.
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